š¾Ā The Secret Guide to Doggy Style in D|s-M

The Position Where Obedience Begins and Control Never Ends
āHe didnāt just take me from behind⦠he took everything. My breath. My obedience. My mind.ā ā L.K., subMrsly whispered
šļø INTRODUCTION: Down on All Fours, and All In
Thereās a hidden door in your marriage. It doesnāt creak when it opens; it growls. And behind it lies a world where posture or position becomes ritual, submission becomes instinct, and obedience is taken, not asked for.
This is the Secret Guide to Doggy Style in D|s-M, where the infamous position becomes a portal to married power exchange. Yes, itās the favorite of many vanilla lovers⦠but what if we told you it holds deeper magic when mastered by a husDOM and a subMrs?
Doggy Style isnāt just sex. Itās command and surrender. Its structure and heat. Itās raw and ritual.
And here, we donāt do ājust sex.ā We do dominance and submission with precision. We show the secret to erotic intimacy.
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š¦ SCENE STORYLINE: The Foxās Growl & The Hareās Submission
L.K. (on all fours, head bowed):
āYou said to wait for you this wayā¦āMr. Fox (adjusting his vampire gloves, circling):
āGood girl. Show me how still you can be when your cunt is aching to be used.ā
The fire crackles. L.K.’s knees sink into the fur rug beside the hearth. A choke collar tightens at her throat, as Mr. Fox pulls. Her ponytail is wrapped and clipped to her back, her body pulled into a perfect arch. Mr. Fox inspects her silently, his cock already heavy from the scent of her obedience.
āTail up,ā he commands, slapping her ass and tapping the plug she wears. She gasps. He watches the blush rise across her ass, then grips her hips with practiced power.
She doesn’t look back. She doesnāt need to.
Sheās already fallen.
š§ DOMINANT PERSPECTIVE: The husDOMās Command Post
The power of Doggy Style in BDSM isnāt the thrust, itās the control.
As the husDOM, you claim the pace, depth, rhythm, and even emotion of the scene. You see everything: the trembling thighs, the grip of her hands on the sheets, the way her breath quickens when your palm presses to her nape.
You control her breath. You control her climax. You control her mind. You literally look at her and mentally and literally make her into your bitch in heat.
In D|s-M, take it further:
- Instructions: āArch more.ā āDonāt move unless I say.ā āBeg like my bitch.ā
- Inspection: Tease her with nothing first, walk around, stroke, slap, praise, deny.
- Use of digits: Your thumb is your key. Place it at her ass, apply pressure, whisper, āYouāre ready.ā Ā Her favorite two fingers make her lick them clean, take them down her throat, training her for deep throat.
Optional commands for the scene:
- āHold the position until I come back.ā (TakeĀ 10 minutes to let tension build)
- āMake your body into my altar.ā (Learned Ritual Command; for her to relax muscles, especially vaginal and anal.)
- āIf you move, I stop and we start over.ā (Mean it, practice it, even if she begs.)
š SUBMISSIVE PERSPECTIVE: Surrender by Posture
There is no accidental obedience in D|s-M.
When I lower myself to my knees, spread my legs, and place my face to the floor, Iām not just getting ready to be taken; Iām making my body available for service.
I am becoming the scene. Not just my body in bondage, but my mind as well.
Tips for the subMrs:
- Prepare your bodyĀ like a sacred temple. Hair-scaped, Lubed, plugĀ inserted. Skin oiled. Nipples & clit clamped. This is not ādoggy style,ā this is aĀ ceremonialĀ preparation.
- Practice stillness. Hold the position. Train for it. Learn to accept and work through stimulation, staying still. Always ask for permission to move. Kind Doms will permit.
- Use your muscles. The āMareās Trickā (Pompoir/Kabbazah) lets you grip and milk your Dom with your vaginal walls. A secret art of ancient submissives.
š§ TOOLS & TOYS FOR DOGGY-STYLE D|s-M
Beginner to Advanced Accessories:
- Liberator wedgeĀ (for arching hips higher)
- Anal training plug setĀ (insert before the scene)
- Wartenberg wheelĀ (drag across back and thighs)
- Tail anal plugĀ (for role play)
- Harness, Leash & collarĀ (keep head still, hands bound)
- RopeĀ (hogtie, arms behind back, tether to furniture)
- Remote controlĀ vibrator
- Sex stoolĀ for positioning
- Magic WandĀ orĀ Clit Suction ToyĀ for edge training during use
šāš„ DOGGY VARIATIONS IN D|s-M
1. Command Classic Doggy
The original doggy position, s-type on hands and knees. Dom controls hips and pace. Add verbal degradation or praise based on behavior. Slap or Paddle that ass. “Good Doggy, Bad Doggy!”
2. Dog & Pony Show
Sub wears a ponytail. Dom grips hair for control or ties an anal hook to ponytail. Ā Add a bit gag, reinsĀ for a full dog andĀ pony show role-play.
3. Hoggy Doggy (Hogtie Variation)
Sub is bound wrists to ankles. Pillow under hips. Utter vulnerability. Perfect for impact or prolonged use.
4. Cuffed Doggy
Wrists are cuffed behind the back. Dominant can pull hair, hold wrists, and spank as a form of correction or encouragement.
5. Over a Barrel Doggy
Sub is bent over a wedge or an armrest of a sofa or chair. Legs spread, arms tied forward. Dom stands behind, delivering deep, angled thrusts.
6. Turtle Doggy
S-type tucks into herself, knees up under her, arms stretched forward, forehead down. Be the turtle! Fully passive. Dom claims her without resistance, cracking her shell.
7. Prison Guard Doggy
Hands/arms shackled behind the back. Bent forward. Getting an orifice check. Dom presses her down, penetrates with full authority, making sure to talk dirty and call her names!
8. Sneaky Bitch Doggy
Sub sneakily uses fingers or a wand on herself while being taken from behind. Perfect for edging or dual penetration.
9. Gorilla Doggy
Dom crouches down, chest over subās back, controlling every inch. Primitive. Powerful. Growling allowed. Pound that chest!
10. Lazy Doggy
Sub backs onto Dom on her feet, couched, while he sits. All effort is hers. He watches, directs. āGood pets work for it.ā
š¬ SAMPLE DIALOGUE SCENE: The Ritual of Doggy Obedience
Dom:
āArch. Wider. Good girl. Donāt move unless you want to lose this privilege.ā
(slaps ass, inserts plug)
āYou exist for this moment, to please me.ā
subMrs:
āYes, Sir⦠Iām ready. Please⦠claim me. Please, take your cunt.ā
Dom:
āThatās not begging. Beg like my bitch.ā
subMrs:
(Nervous laugh, shaking, breathily…) āPlease, Sir. I need you inside me. I need you to fuck me into further obedience. Make me remember what I am. Break me down then build me back up……ā
Dom:
āThatās more like it.ā
š§ THE PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND DOGGY IN D|s-M
Doggy-style taps into primal, subconscious layers of the psyche. For the Dominant, it allows complete visual and physical control. For the submissive, it strips her of defense. It magnifies her vulnerability and trust.
- Symbolism: The subās back is exposed. Her eyes are not on her Dominant, she must trust, not anticipate.
- Energetics: The rear penetration opens deeper channels of surrender, especially when paired with rituals like plug-insertion or voice training.
- Roleplay Integration: Animal play, punishment, or public scene tension can all be layered into this posture.
š SECRET CLOSING, A BUNNY WHISPER:
This isnāt about āGetting fucking from behind.ā
Itās about taking my mind forward into becoming what he wishes.
Doggy Style in D|s-M isnāt just a position I get into.
Itās a statement:
āI am his. He can use me how he pleases. And when heās done, Iāll thank him for using me so well.ā
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