🌀 The Gravitational Pull Position | A Deep, Suspended Ride Into Desire

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This position creates a thrilling sensation of weightlessness and surrender, allowing the dominant partner to literally pull their submissive into orbit, again and again. It’s ideal for vaginal or anal penetration and offers intense G-spot or P-spot stimulation due to the angle and leverage. Here’s how to perform it:


⚠️ Health & Safety Warning

Before attempting this or any intense sexual position, ensure both partners are in good physical health. This position requires core strength, balance, and control. Avoid attempting while under the influence of drugs or alcohol, as this can impair coordination, reaction time, and judgment, significantly increasing the risk of injury. Prioritize communication, consent, and physical readiness.


🔧 Setup

  • Choose a sturdy, waist-height surface like a table, countertop, or even a heavy dresser.
  • Ensure it’s stable enough to support the woman’s legs and body weight as she leans back.

🧭 Positioning

  1. The sub (receiver):
    • Stand with your back to your partner.
    • Have your partner lift your legs up, and rest your feet on the edge of the table or island (furniture).
    • Lean back slightly, reach back, supporting yourself on his upper body, arms, or wrists. When you get comfortable, you can lean forward and hold your ankles (letting your Dom push you and back down, working you on his cock).
    • Your butt should be slightly hovering, allowing for hip mobility and tilting access.
  2. The Dom (penetrator):
    • Stand with your front to her back, knees slightly bent, and position your pelvis close.
    • Grasp your partner’s hips, thighs, or buttocks firmly for control. Dom can lift under her thighs for extra support.
    • Start slowly, guiding your partner onto your cock, either vaginally or anally.
    • Using your grip to thrust and pull, creating a powerful, rocking rhythm. You are creating “GRAVITATIONAL PULL”.

💡 Tips for Success

  • Angle matters: The woman can adjust the tilt of her hips (upward tilt enhances G-spot access; downward tilt creates deeper penetration).
  • Breath: Maintain intimacy by syncing breath. Dom can verbally guide her through breathing exercises. 
  • Footwear fantasy: If you’re into it, heels or boots resting on the table add to the erotic display.
  • Anal variation: For anal, ensure full warm-up, generous lube, and use a slower, more controlled pace. This position gives the Dominant ideal control and the submissive a chance to lean wholly into vulnerability.
  • Have the sub hold lube. She can reapply from above and let gravity do the work.

🔥 Why It Works

  • Suspended Control: The sub is partially held aloft, creating the sensation of being “taken” or “held in space.”
  • Visual Feast: The view of her body arching, legs elevated, and hips gripped is irresistibly erotic.
  • Deep Penetration: The angle naturally opens her for powerful, deep strokes.
  • Power Exchange: The sub surrenders control of gravity itself, letting the Dom command the rhythm and force.

🛠 Variations

  • Harness her body or waist. The leather straps provide a secure hold and aid in pushing and pulling. 
  • Keep her mouth full with a ball gag or holding something. 
  • Add a mirror nearby for a voyeuristic boost.
  • Incorporate a vibrator or anal plug for simultaneous stimulation.
  • 🪢 Bondage Option: Place her wrists together (cuffed & clipped, or tied for an added element of submission), Advanced players option: arms/wrists behind her for added dependency. This amplifies vulnerability and control, while giving the Dom complete freedom to manipulate the sub’s hips and rhythm, leaving her with the ultimate dependency, for fear of shifting or falling out of position.

🪐 Scene Enhancements

🎧 Soundtrack Suggestion
Choose ambient, sensual tracks like Massive Attack, FKA twigs, or low-tempo electronic to mirror the suspended, space-like vibe.

💬 Command Suggestions for husDOM

  • “Hold still while I pull you deeper into orbit.”
  • “You’re floating because I said so—now fall into me.”
  • “You don’t move unless I allow it.”

📖 subMrs Journal Prompt

“When did I feel most in his control? What did it feel like to be suspended and penetrated? What emotions did it awaken in me?”

📎 Toy Recommendations

  • Liberator wedge for comfort and angle
  • Adjustable under-table restraints for security
  • Wand vibrator (held by sub or mounted)
  • Cooling or warming arousal gels

🌀 Zero Gravity Fantasy Expansion

“Pretend you’re in space—no sound but breath, no floor beneath, only the force of his body keeping you grounded. Dim the lights, move slowly, speak in low tones. Float together.”

🔁 Aftercare Ritual

  • Wrap her in a blanket
  • Offer water and praise
  • Gently stroke her hair or skin
  • Whisper: “You’re back on Earth now. And still mine.”

🖐 Safety Signal
If unable to speak, agree beforehand that 3 firm taps anywhere on his body signals to stop immediately.


🦊 Mr. Fox’s WisDOM:
“Gravitational pull is about physics. You’re creating the force that’s putting her into orbit. Remind her she doesn’t just fall, she belongs there, because you put her there.”

🐇 L.K.’s Bunny Whisper:
“When he works me over his cock, I relax into the rocking, opening me up, I can feel him in my deepest depths.  It’s about trusting him, being held, being taken, into space? That’s where the real surrender lives.”


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