🐾 The Secret Guide to Doggy Style in D|s-M

The Position Where Obedience Begins and Control Never Ends

“He didn’t just take me from behind… he took everything. My breath. My obedience. My mind.” – L.K., subMrsly whispered

🔑️ INTRODUCTION: Down on All Fours, and All In

There’s a hidden door in your marriage. It doesn’t creak when it opens; it growls. And behind it lies a world where posture or position becomes ritual, submission becomes instinct, and obedience is taken, not asked for.

This is the Secret Guide to Doggy Style in D|s-M, where the infamous position becomes a portal to married power exchange. Yes, it’s the favorite of many vanilla lovers… but what if we told you it holds deeper magic when mastered by a husDOM and a subMrs?

Doggy Style isn’t just sex. It’s command and surrender. Its structure and heat. It’s raw and ritual.

And here, we don’t do “just sex.” We do dominance and submission with precision. We show the secret to erotic intimacy.

Explore more: The Bound Butterfly Position · Cock Worship Guide · The Art of Giving and Receiving Commands

🦊 SCENE STORYLINE: The Fox’s Growl & The Hare’s Submission

L.K. (on all fours, head bowed):
“You said to wait for you this way…”

Mr. Fox (adjusting his vampire gloves, circling):
“Good girl. Show me how still you can be when your cunt is aching to be used.”

The fire crackles. L.K.’s knees sink into the fur rug beside the hearth. A choke collar tightens at her throat, as Mr. Fox pulls. Her ponytail is wrapped and clipped to her back, her body pulled into a perfect arch. Mr. Fox inspects her silently, his cock already heavy from the scent of her obedience.

“Tail up,” he commands, slapping her ass and tapping the plug she wears. She gasps. He watches the blush rise across her ass, then grips her hips with practiced power.

She doesn’t look back. She doesn’t need to.

She’s already fallen.

🧠 DOMINANT PERSPECTIVE: The husDOM’s Command Post

The power of Doggy Style in BDSM isn’t the thrust, it’s the control.

As the husDOM, you claim the pace, depth, rhythm, and even emotion of the scene. You see everything: the trembling thighs, the grip of her hands on the sheets, the way her breath quickens when your palm presses to her nape.

You control her breath. You control her climax. You control her mind. You literally look at her and mentally and literally make her into your bitch in heat. 

In D|s-M, take it further:

• Instructions: “Arch more.” “Don’t move unless I say.” “Beg like my bitch.”
• Inspection: Tease her with nothing first, walk around, stroke, slap, praise, deny.
• Use of digits: Your thumb is your key. Place it at her ass, apply pressure, whisper, “You’re ready.”  Her favorite two fingers make her lick them clean, take them down her throat, training her for deep throat.

Optional commands for the scene:

• “Hold the position until I come back.” (Take 10 minutes to let tension build)
• “Make your body into my altar.” (Learned Ritual Command; for her to relax muscles, especially vaginal and anal.)
• “If you move, I stop and we start over.” (Mean it, practice it, even if she begs.)

🐇 SUBMISSIVE PERSPECTIVE: Surrender by Posture

There is no accidental obedience in D|s-M.

When I lower myself to my knees, spread my legs, and place my face to the floor, I’m not just getting ready to be taken; I’m making my body available for service.

I am becoming the scene. Not just my body in bondage, but my mind as well.

Tips for the subMrs:

• Prepare your body like a sacred temple. Hair-scaped, Lubed, plug inserted. Skin oiled. Nipples & clit clamped. This is not “doggy style,” this is a ceremonial preparation.
• Practice stillness. Hold the position. Train for it. Learn to accept and work through stimulation, staying still. Always ask for permission to move. Kind Doms will permit.
• Use your muscles. The “Mare’s Trick” (Pompoir/Kabbazah) lets you grip and milk your Dom with your vaginal walls. A secret art of ancient submissives.

🔧 TOOLS & TOYS FOR DOGGY-STYLE D|s-M

Beginner to Advanced Accessories:

• Liberator wedge (for arching hips higher)
• Anal training plug set (insert before the scene)
• Wartenberg wheel (drag across back and thighs)
• Tail anal plug (for role play)
• Harness, Leash & collar (keep head still, hands bound)
• Rope (hogtie, arms behind back, tether to furniture)
• Remote control vibrator
• Sex stool for positioning
• Magic Wand or Clit Suction Toy for edge training during use

🐕‍🔥 DOGGY VARIATIONS IN D|s-M

1. Command Classic Doggy
The original doggy position, s-type on hands and knees. Dom controls hips and pace. Add verbal degradation or praise based on behavior. Slap or Paddle that ass. “Good Doggy, Bad Doggy!” 

2. Dog & Pony Show
Sub wears a ponytail. Dom grips hair for control or ties an anal hook to ponytail.  Add a bit gag, reins for a full dog and pony show role-play.

3. Hoggy Doggy (Hogtie Variation)
Sub is bound wrists to ankles. Pillow under hips. Utter vulnerability. Perfect for impact or prolonged use.

4. Cuffed Doggy
Wrists are cuffed behind the back. Dominant can pull hair, hold wrists, and spank as a form of correction or encouragement.

5. Over a Barrel Doggy
Sub is bent over a wedge or an armrest of a sofa or chair. Legs spread, arms tied forward. Dom stands behind, delivering deep, angled thrusts.

6. Turtle Doggy
S-type tucks into herself, knees up under her, arms stretched forward, forehead down. Be the turtle! Fully passive. Dom claims her without resistance, cracking her shell. 

7. Prison Guard Doggy
Hands/arms shackled behind the back. Bent forward. Getting an orifice check. Dom presses her down, penetrates with full authority, making sure to talk dirty and call her names! 

8. Sneaky Bitch Doggy
Sub sneakily uses fingers or a wand on herself while being taken from behind. Perfect for edging or dual penetration.

9. Gorilla Doggy
Dom crouches down, chest over sub’s back, controlling every inch. Primitive. Powerful. Growling allowed. Pound that chest!

10. Lazy Doggy
Sub backs onto Dom on her feet, couched, while he sits. All effort is hers. He watches, directs. “Good pets work for it.”

💬 SAMPLE DIALOGUE SCENE: The Ritual of Doggy Obedience

Dom:
“Arch. Wider. Good girl. Don’t move unless you want to lose this privilege.”
(slaps ass, inserts plug)
“You exist for this moment, to please me.”

subMrs:
“Yes, Sir… I’m ready. Please… claim me. Please, take your cunt.”

Dom:
“That’s not begging. Beg like my bitch.”

subMrs:
(Nervous laugh, shaking, breathily…) “Please, Sir. I need you inside me. I need you to fuck me into further obedience. Make me remember what I am. Break me down then build me back up……”

Dom:
“That’s more like it.”

🧠 THE PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND DOGGY IN D|s-M

Doggy-style taps into primal, subconscious layers of the psyche. For the Dominant, it allows complete visual and physical control. For the submissive, it strips her of defense. It magnifies her vulnerability and trust.

• Symbolism: The sub’s back is exposed. Her eyes are not on her Dominant, she must trust, not anticipate.
• Energetics: The rear penetration opens deeper channels of surrender, especially when paired with rituals like plug-insertion or voice training.
• Roleplay Integration: Animal play, punishment, or public scene tension can all be layered into this posture.

🐇 SECRET CLOSING, A BUNNY WHISPER: 

This isn’t about “Getting fucking from behind.”
It’s about taking my mind forward into becoming what he wishes.
Doggy Style in D|s-M isn’t just a position I get into.
It’s a statement:

“I am his. He can use me how he pleases. And when he’s done, I’ll thank him for using me so well.”

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