💘𓂏 February Arrives with Teeth
February is not just the last month of winter chill or the month of roses and restraint.
It is the month where love shows its marks.
Before greeting cards softened it, February belonged to fire, cleansing, bodies, and truth. It was a threshold month. A purifying month. A month that asked lovers to look at what remained after Winter had stripped everything bare.
This is the season where desire doesn’t whisper.
It knocks.
Sometimes it bites.
February remembers what we forget the rest of the year:
That love is not just felt.
It is inscribed.
On skin.
In habit.
In ritual.
In quiet ways, two people choose each other again.
This is a month of contrast.
Sacred devotion beside reckless longing.
Guardianship beside temptation.
Tender hands beside greedy mouths.
Cherubs stand at the gates of what is holy.
Cupid aims for what cannot be controlled.
And between them lives real intimacy, the kind that is protected and played with.
February is also the month of cleansing. Of washing away what no longer fits. Of clearing bodies, homes, and stories. Of preparing space for Spring by deciding what deserves to come forward with you.
This is not about perfection.
It’s about presence.
Knowing your body.
Mapping where you open and where you guard.
Learning how love lands differently on different skin.
Understanding that touch was our first language long before words tried to tame it.
February is a community month, too. Love does not thrive alone. It thrives in shared meaning, mutual care, and rituals that remind us we are not doing this in isolation.
This month, we will talk about marks and meaning.
About purification and pleasure.
About self-love and shared devotion.
About food, drink, touch, play, and memory.
About holidays that still hum with ancient heat beneath their modern names.
February is not here to be polite.
It is here to remind you.
And this month, we’re listening.
Topics In February
- Love Marks
- Februalia / purification
- Lupercalia
- Cherub vs. Cupid love
- Sexy Body Mapping
- D|s-M Love Languages
- Self-love & masturbation
- Romance, food, drink, touch
- Community & cleansing
- AND a February holiday + observance list
FEBRUARY: LOVE MARKS
Bites, Badges of Honor & Marking the Body
February is not a gentle month.
It is the last month of Winter, the time when desire stirs beneath the frost, when bodies ache to be warmed, touched, claimed. Historically, February has always been a month of cleansing, fertility, sex, and devotion.
This is why February’s Marriages Sexiest Secret theme is:
LOVE MARKS
Marks that say:
- I was here.
- I was chosen.
- I belong.
Marks may fade from skin, but belonging does not fade from the nervous system.
🌹 LOVE MARKS: MARKING THE BODY
Marks are not damage.
Marks are memory made visible, physically or mentally, both spiritual for couples.
Love marks can be:
- Bites, scratches, nail marks
- Bruises/Bruising worn privately or proudly
- Lipstick, ink, or oil writing
- Teeth, hands, breath, pressure
- Golden showers/Bathing
In D|s-M, marks become badges of honor.
They are consented, intentional, and meaningful.
A mark placed with awareness becomes an anchor, a reminder of who you belong to and how you were loved.
🧹 FEBRUALIA: CLEANSING, PURIFICATION & RELEASE
The word February comes from februa, meaning to cleanse.
In Ancient Rome, February was dedicated to Februalia, a month-long festival of:
- Washing
- Purification
- Atonement
- Preparing for renewal
D|s-M Translation
You do not cleanse to erase desire.
You cleanse to make room for deeper claiming.
Purge & Clean the Slate Ritual
- Bathe intentionally (alone or together)
- Speak aloud what you are releasing
- Clean your home and bedroom
- End by re-marking the body with touch, teeth, oil, or words
Cleansing without re-claiming leaves emptiness.
February teaches us to do both.
🩸 LUPERCALIA: RAW LOVE & BODY TRUTH
Before Valentine’s Day, there was the holiday Lupercalia.
Lupercalia was a Roman fertility and purification festival held February 13–15th, involving:
- Animal sacrifice
- Blood rites
- Whipping with hides
- Nudity
- Matchmaking
- Laughter and sex
This was not romantic love.
This was primal, embodied truth.
Modern Erotic Translation
- Consensual spanking or impact play
- Ritual striking for devotion or fertility
- Laughing, messy, unpolished sex
- Choosing one another again with the body
This is why February has always been known as F*cking February.
💘 CHERUB LOVE vs. CUPID LOVE
February carries two very different love energies.
🪽 CHERUB LOVE — Sacred & Protective
Cherubs were not cute babies.
Biblically, they were fierce guardians placed at the gates of sacred spaces after innocence was lost.
Cherub love is:
- Protective
- Enduring
- Loyal
- Responsible
In D|s-M:
- Ownership with responsibility
- Submission rooted in trust
- Rules that guard intimacy
- Marks worn as honor
Cherub theme: Love
This is sacred. This is guarded. This is ours.
🏹 CUPID LOVE — Desire & Mischief
Cupid is a trickster.
His arrows spark:
- Lust
- Obsession
- Curiosity
- Erotic chaos
In D|s-M:
- Flirting
- Role-play
- Teasing and denial
- Dirty talk
Cupid love whispers:
Right now.
What if?
Again, Again!
🔥 February Balance
Cupid awakens desire.
Cherubs protect what desire builds.
You need both.
🗺️ SEXY BODY MAPPING: KNOWING THE TERRAIN
Before language, there was touch.
Sexy body mapping is the practice of learning the body as sacred terrain:
- Where it opens
- Where it guards
- Where it craves
- Where it remembers
Every body contains:
- Hot zones
- Slow zones
- Sacred zones
- Guarded zones
Cherub Body Mapping
Focuses on:
- Heart
- Belly
- Neck
- Face
- Lower back
Touch is slow, reverent, protective.
Cupid Body Mapping
Focuses on:
- Teasing
- Surprise
- Desire
- Reaction
Touch is playful, curious, alive.
When you know the map, marks gain meaning.
💋 LOVE MARKS + BODY MAPPING
A bite placed on a known hot zone
A nail mark where surrender lives
Words written on a sacred curve
Marks become:
- Memory anchors
- Erotic reminders
- Proof of being known
❤️ LOVE LANGUAGES — D|s-M STYLE
How Love Is Felt, Not Just Shown
February invites you to express love on purpose.
In a D|s-M dynamic, love languages are not passive preferences, they become pathways of devotion, trust, and erotic connection.
Each language answers a different emotional question.
Love Language: How It Lands in D|s-M
Words of Affirmation: Spoken desire, praise, dirty talk, written devotion, whispered ownership. —*Love is heard and believed.
Physical Touch: Intentional touch, marks, massage, claiming hands. *Love is felt through the body.
Acts of Service: Ritual care, preparation, anticipation, tending to needs. *Love is shown through action.
Gifts: Collars, notes, symbols, orgasms offered with meaning. Love is given and received.
Quality Time: Scenes, rituals, uninterrupted presence. Love is chosen and prioritized.
In D|s-M, love languages deepen because they are:
- Intentional
- Consensual
- Embodied
- Remembered
February asks:
How does your partner actually feel loved, and how can desire speak that language more clearly?
Love is not just something you feel.
It is something you practice.
💦 SELF-LOVE & MASTURBATION
Self-love is not separate from Dominance or submission.
February invites:
- Mutual Masturbation
- Masturbation as devotion
- Orgasms offered as gifts
- Valentine self-pleasure for your partner
Loving your body trains it to receive love better.
🍓 ROMANCE, FOOD & DRINK
February is sensory.
Explore:
- Romance with food, SPLOSHING! (chocolate, strawberries, honey)
- Drink Month: What’s Your Favorite Spirit?
- Sensual massage
- Candlelight and warmth
🫀 TOUCH: OUR FIRST RELATIONSHIP RITE
Before sex.
Before romance.
Before promises.
There was touch.
February returns us to:
- Skin-to-skin presence
- Heart-centered contact
- Sacred touch without agenda
🧹 COMMUNITY & CLEANING
February is also Intimacy Community Month.
Love thrives in ecosystems:
- Partners
- Rituals
- Shared meanings
Clean your home.
Clean your body.
Clean dynamics.
Prepare for Spring.
🌙 FEBRUARY SYMBOLISM & ASTROLOGY
- Birthstone: Amethyst
- Flower: Primrose
- Zodiac: Aquarius → Pisces
- Number: 2 (union)
- Focus: Body Awareness & Heart
🗓️ FEBRUARY HOLIDAYS & OBSERVANCES
Monthly Observances
- National Heart Month
- Body Awareness Month (Mapping & Exploring)
Key Dates
- Full Snow Moon/Storm Moon, February 1st
- Feb 1–2: Imbolc / Candlemas
- Feb 2: Groundhog Day
- Feb 5: National Masturbate in the Shower Day
- Feb 6: Lame *uck Day (Remember funny sex mishaps!)
- Feb 13: Kiss Using Tongue Day
- Feb 13–15: Lupercalia (historical)
- Feb 14: Valentine’s Day / World Marriage Day
- Feb 17: Random Acts of Kindness Day / Ash Wednesday
- February 17th Lunar New Year; Year of the Fire Horse (Horse Play Day)
- Feb 18: Thumb Appreciation Day (yes… that thumb!)
- Feb 20: Hoodie-Hoo Day (Scare away Winter!)
- Feb 20: Cherry Pie Day
- Feb 21: Sticky Buns Day
- Feb 26: Sexy Fairy Tale Day
🕯️ FEBRUARY CLOSING
February does not ask for perfection.
It asks for:
- Presence
- Touch
- Cleansing
- Desire
- Devotion
Cupid lights the fire.
Cherubs guard the flame.
Love leaves a mark on us all. Be intentional with the marks you make this year!
