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August 17th-26th, Ten Nights of Feline Seduction & Submission

Legend has it that the ten nights beginning August 17th mark the bewitching Cat Nights, born from an old Irish tale of a witch who turns into a cat nine times before the final transformation. In D|s-M, this is the perfect time to explore feline-themed power exchange, from gentle purring to wildcat domination. August’s summer nights are getting both shorter and cooler. Even as we humans notice the seasonal change, cats are much more sensitive to these changes. Whether dusk or dawn, cats become a bit more lively. So dusk or dawn during Cat’s Nights, if you’re out on a stroll, make sure it’s a cat that you see and not a lurking witch out to bewitch you.


Night 1 – The Kitten’s Collar

Sir gifts his sub a delicate collar with a small bell. She crawls to him on all fours, each chime a reminder of her submission. Use soft commands: “Sit pretty.” “Come.” “Purr for me.” She bewitches him.
Props/Toys: Collar with bell, blindfold.

Night 2 – Grooming Ritual

Sir “grooms” his kitten with slow, deliberate touches—brushing her hair, massaging her scalp, and licking along her neck and shoulders.
Props/Toys: Soft bristle brush, massage oil.

Night 3 – The Lap Cat

She wears lingerie or nothing at all and spends the evening curled in Sir’s lap, being stroked and praised. He teases her between the legs, but denies release, no matter how much she yowls.
Props/Toys: Silk robe or lingerie, plush throw.

Night 4 – Hunting Lessons

Sir ties her wrists with a silky “tail” behind her back. He hides a toy, treat, or plug in the room, making her crawl and “hunt” for it.
Props/Toys: Silky “tail” restraint, hidden toy, treat, or plug.

Night 5 – Catnap Capture

Sir “catches” his sleeping kitten, throwing her onto the bed or floor and pinning her down. Grabbing her nape, biting her neck. The scene mixes gentle petting and fierce play-fighting.
Props/Toys: Restraints, faux fur rug.

Night 6 – Milk & Lap Worship

A bowl of warm milk is placed on the floor. She drinks hands-free while he strokes her hair, raw and primal.
Props/Toys: Bowl of warm milk/cream, kneeling cushion.

Night 7 – Scratches & Bites

Introduce light scratching and playful nips—marking and being marked.
Props/Toys: Scratcher tool, sensation claws, teeth-friendly bit gag.

Night 8 – The Panther’s Stalk

She circles Sir on all fours, eyes locked, hips swaying. He lets her think she’s the predator—then pounces back.
Props/Toys: Lube, cat tail anal plug, rope or cuffs.

Night 9 – Pussy Worship

She lies open on a fur throw as Sir worships her with mouth, words, and dominance—bringing her to the edge again and again.
Props/Toys: Fur throw, massage candle, pillows.

Night 10 – The Wildcat Unleashed

The final night—no holding back. Sir uses all the tools and rituals from the previous nights in one primal, consuming scene.
Props/Toys: All previous props combined.


L.K.’s Bunny Carrot of Truth 🥕
The Cat Nights aren’t just erotic fun, they’re training. You’re building muscle memory for submission, deepening sensual communication, and fueling the polarity that keeps you prowling for each other.

Mr. Fox’s Wis-DOM 🦊
Every cat has claws. Every kitten grows into a hunter. Your job as her Sir is to tame the wild, without ever breaking her spirit. Show her who can “ROAR”.

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