Edging, Peaking and Surfing | Ride the Wave
Riding the wave and surfing, you think is an individual sport, NOT SO FAST! Edging, peaking, and surfing is a three part sexual technique where an individual’s orgasm is controlled. You and your partner can learn to ride the wave during sex scenes and training or in self play and masturbation.
Edging and Peaking
Edging is the repeated process of one person, the controller, stimulating their partner with intent of making them climax, but then reduces the level of stimulation they are giving, right before their partner orgasms. This technique is commonly referred to as, erotic sexual denial. Prolonging the orgasm increases the level of sexual tension. When a controller provides enough stimulation for the receiver to achieve an orgasm, the climax they finally experience will be stronger due to increased tension and the amount of arousal that built up during the repeatedly extended stimulation and lack of giving them the happy ending.
Peaking is that tight rope area where a receiver, bottom or sub-portive partner can learn to stay. It’s that grey area where you are feeling a sexual euphoria, some people call it subspace. The receiver can help the controller by learning their body’s cues and learning to relax even in heighten stimulation states. Which means practice will be needed.
The TOP, leader, controller or husDOM’s wants to learn your body as to keep you peaking or stimulated without getting washed away, crash while burning. The controller can think of this part of the sexual technique as mountain climbing. Get his partner to the top of the mountain and keep them there, loudly yodeling and not falling down the other side. It is a most desired skill or art for them to achieve, controlling your body’s orgasm.
Surfing
Surfing is where both partners are playing their role successfully, completing a power exchange. As is receiver you can learn how to stay at the peak, surfing it, as I mentioned above the reciever will need to learn to work through or learning to relax through high stimulation sexual play. You, the receiver, is truly giving the controller, your partner, a pleasure of being able to play your body, feel the control they most desire.
Once you get good at this, neither one of you wants to get to a finale. You want to stay in this heightened state, riding the wave. This is an addictive practice for both partners.
Not just Surf Boards
Put away your board polish. You can use many pleasure tools while edging, peaking and surfing. Vibrators, clamps, dildos, and plugs are great additions. Add a little bondage with cuffs, rope and harness’. Start small and build from there. The controller can increase the challenge for their partner over time.
Scene, Training & Homework
Edging, peaking and surfing, ride the wave is a true art that a couple can work on in sexual play and scenes. Couple’s can create training sessions for them both to practice the skill or the receiver can be given homework as that’s done individually. The receiver will need practice edging peaking and surfing on their own. They will build a endurance they can show their partner, getting an A+ score!
