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Wings Tied, Mouth Open: The Nectar Ritual

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A Bound Butterfly’s Sacred Throat Training and Cock Worship Offering

In the erotic underworld of marital devotion and Dominance, there exists a secret known not by words, but by acts. It begins with bondage. It deepens with oral training. And it ends with a sacred drop of nectar, thick, warm, and divine, resting at the tip of her husDOM’s cock.

This is The Nectar Ritual — a ritual of cock worship performed by a bound subMrs. It is more than fellatio. It is submission sealed with semen. A devotional act where the mouth becomes the altar, the cock becomes the source, and a bead of ejaculate becomes the nectar she was trained to receive.


🦋 The Butterfly Bound: Where Obedience Takes Shape

The subMrs, or s-type, begins the ritual not merely on impulse, but with deliberate grace as she assumes her designated position. Begins the ritual not on impulse, but in position.

She is bound:

  • Eyes covered, a mask, looking like the bulbous eyes of the butterfly
  • Wrists secured behind her back or under her thighs
  • Knees parted in a display of openness
  • Mouth waiting, heart soft, breath steady
  • Gag hanging around her neck, now freed to serve

She is the Butterfly, wings stilled, beauty restrained. Her service is silent. Her goal is clear: to take him deeper, to drink without resistance, and to worship him with her entire body… through her mouth.

“Stillness is not silence. It is power, waiting to be told what to do.”,  subMrs.com


🫦 Training the Mouth: Obedience Begins on the Tongue

The husDOM does not simply place himself in her mouth.
He prepares her.

✦ Throat Opening with Fingers

He presses two fingers into her mouth, firm, slow, commanding.

  • She flattens her tongue beneath them
  • He guides them deep, toward the back of her throat
  • She breathes through her nose
  • He holds her there until she doesn’t flinch

This isn’t just physical prep.
This is mindset training. He teaches her body to open to him in every hole.
He teaches her the will to obey.

Mantra: “Embrace your purpose now: to open your heart, to serve others with grace, and to savor the essence of life. This is your purpose now. To open. To serve. To drink.”

✦ Desensitization and Ritual Practice

Daily or weekly, he introduces tools:

  • Throat training dildos
  • Held gags or bit restraints
  • Edging without swallowing, until he allows it

Her education is not just about how to take him, but also about how to teach her mind to crave him.


🍯 The Butterfly Fellatio Technique: Worship Through Precision

The Butterfly Technique focuses not on speed or show, but on intentional targeting of the penis’s most sensitive pleasure points, primarily the frenulum and corona.

✦ What Is the Frenulum?

The frenulum (Latin for “little bridle”) is a small, sensitive ridge of tissue underneath the penis, often called the “banjo string.” It’s the most sexually responsive area of the shaft, where a concentration of sensory nerve endings culminates.

“The frenulum is where numerous sensory nerve terminals end, so all those nerves in a small area are critical to sexual satisfaction… and the reason it’s so sensitive.”

When the subMrs targets the frenulum with her tongue, lips, or even a slow pulsing vibrator, she activates the husDOM’s most potent triggers for orgasm, making his climax longer, deeper, and far more intense than with traditional oral sex.

✦ Technique: Tongue as Wing, Mouth as Flower

  • Use a broad, flat tongue to lick slowly up the shaft like you’re savoring an ice cream cone. This gives soft, enveloping sensation.
  • Then sharpen the tongue into a bratty point to circle the frenulum or flick against the corona, the sensitive ridge where the head meets the shaft.
  • Alternate soft and sharp. Feathered and focused. Let it mimic the flutter of a butterfly’s wings.

Add moisture — lots of it.

  • Drool, Lube, Clit sensitizer, Even flavored honey gels.
  • Use a vibrating toy (like a wand) held to the frenulum, starting at the lowest setting. Increase intensity gradually. Let it vibrate through his body like a current of permission.

Our magic wands work just as beautifully on him as they do on us.

This isn’t just a technique, it’s an exploration. You are learning your Sir’s responses, his tells, and triggers. You are worshiping through study, service, and sensual science.


🦋 Sipping the Nectar: The Sacred Drop

Butterflies feed exclusively on nectar, a sugary fluid produced by flowers. In this ritual, you are the butterfly, and his cock is your flower.

As you worship his shaft, circling, tasting, teasing, watching and waiting for the first dew drop of pre-cum or ejaculate. That moisture is his offering. His body’s response to your devotion.

You see it. You inhale deeply. You, the butterfly, swipe your tongue slowly across the tip, sipping the drop as if from a sacred blossom. That is your nectar.

And what follows, whether he allows a slow release down your throat, or a pulse that paints your tongue, is not just orgasm. This frenulum orgasm is more powerful than the usual penile orgasm. You are pulling this orgasm from the very bottom of his spine. Imagine your lips pulling the nectar from his base.

It is blessing. A sacrament of Dominance received through your mouth.

“The butterfly does not devour. She sips. Slowly. Reverently. This drop is not just pleasure, it’s permission.” — husDOM.com


🗝️ Why This Ritual Unlocks Deeper Submission

1. Cock Worship Becomes Ceremony

The mouth is no longer casual, it’s consecrated.
The act becomes ritual. The cum, a dew drop of sacrament.

2. The Nectar Is the Reward

Not every blowjob leads to swallowing. But in this act, the nectar is earned, through stillness, through training, through worship.

3. Bondage Sharpens Obedience

Her restraints don’t inhibit the act; they focus it.
She’s not free to flinch or flee.
She must stay, wings down, mouth open
And drink.


💋 L.K.’s Perspective: “His Nectar Is My Benediction”

“When that first drop touches my tongue, my body shivers. It’s not just cum. It’s his approval, his pleasure I am looking for. His power, I taste it, feel it slide down my throat, and I’m proud. My mouth earned this. My bondage held me here long enough to receive him. I serve. I swallow, then I bloom.”


🍷 Mr. Fox’s Perspective: “She Drinks My Power with Discipline”

“I watch her lips tremble. I watch her try to hold her gag reflex. I press myself into her trained mouth, opening wider to me, and I reward her when she’s ready. That first drop… that nectar… that’s for her. She’s earned it. She doesn’t just take my cum, she receives it like a butterfly’s ritual”


🧴 Tools of the Ritual

  • Throat Training Toys – Gradual sizes to condition depth
  • Finger Lube – For warm-up and taste prep
  • Leather Cuffs / Rope – To bind hands behind or under the body
  • Posture Collar – Keeps alignment, deepens visual Dominance
  • Flavored Nectar Lubes – Optional for beginner training; honey or vanilla
  • Magic Wand or Vibrating Toy – Held to frenulum for focused stimulation
  • Clit sensitizers – Yes, even for him — used sparingly to intensify sensitivity

🎶 Suggested Soundtrack

  • “Butterfly” – Crazy Town
  • “Kiss It Better” – Rihanna
  • “Earned It” – The Weeknd
  • “Sade” – No Ordinary Love (slow and sacred)

🕯️ Aftercare for the Trained, Nectar-Stained Mouth

Once the ritual ends:

  • Remove the collar and restraints slowly, tenderly
  • Offer water or something sweet — nectar for the Butterfly
  • Massage & stroke her jaw, kiss her forehead, whisper:

“You served with beauty. You drank well.”

Let her melt into your praise. Let her bask in your warmth. She gave you her breath, her throat, her worship; now give her your presence.


🎁 Final Offering: The Ritual of Drinking Him In

Wings tied.
Mouth open.
Trained by fingers.
Tongue moist, soft as a whisper, then sharp and reverent.
Fed with nectar.
Marked by the man she serves.

The Nectar Ritual is a bond of oral obedience, erotic discipline, and sacred submission. A ritual passed from a secret guide in an erotic book to husDOM, to subMrs. A secret between lovers who understand that cock worship is not a task, it is a gift.

Let her train.
Let her serve.
Let her drink.


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