🐇 End-of-Month Closing Ritual | Anal Play

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Prompts (subMrs)

🔥 Reflection on Growth

  • This month, how has my comfort with anal play shifted? What surprised me?
  • Which new sensations, tools, or rituals did Sir introduce that stretched me mentally or physically?
  • Did I resist at any point? If so, why, and how did I move through that resistance?

🕯️ Devotion & Ritual

  • How does offering my ass in service change how I feel about my submission as a whole?
  • When Sir commanded or inspected me anally, how did my sense of trust and devotion deepen?
  • Did I feel more objectified, more honored, or both—and how did that duality affect me?

🌌 Erotic Memory

  • Describe in detail one anal scene from this month that lingers in my body. What sounds, smells, touches, or words stay with me?
  • What moment made me feel most ‘taken’ and most ‘his’?
  • How did aftercare following anal play settle me emotionally?

⚖️ Surrender & Struggle

  • Did I experience shame, fear, or insecurity around anal play this month? How did Sir guide me through it?
  • What internal barriers still remain before I can fully surrender my ass without hesitation?
  • How does anal play magnify obedience for me compared to other forms of play?

🌿 Connection & Communication

  • How did we talk about anal play before or after scenes? What helped me feel safe and seen?
  • What do I want to tell Sir now that I might not have expressed in the moment?
  • If I could give Sir one request for next month’s anal training or ritual, what would it be?

🕊️ Devotional Closing

  • Write a prayer, mantra, or offering to Sir about your ass and submission. Something he could read and use as inspiration for next month.
  • Example starter: “Sir, my body is your temple. My ass is your throne. Train me, stretch me, claim me…”

🦊 End-of-Month Anal Play Month 

Prompts (husDOM)

🔥 Leadership & Growth

  • How did I lead her into deeper anal exploration this month?
  • What specific commands or rituals helped her yield more fully?
  • Did I notice any resistance, physical, emotional, or mental, and how did I respond as her Leader?

🕯️ Ritual & Devotion

  • In what ways did claiming her ass remind me of my authority and her devotion?
  • Which rituals (inspection, presentation, daily wear, worship) resonated most deeply with me this month?
  • How does anal play strengthen my sense of ownership over her body and her surrender to me?

🌌 Erotic Memory

  • Which anal play moment from this month replayed in my mind afterward? What aroused me most was the control, the sensation, and her reactions.
  • How did her obedience (or struggle) intensify the erotic charge?
  • Was there a specific phrase, look, or sound she made that marked her as undeniably mine?

⚖️ Training & Responsibility

  • How is her anal training progressing? Where has she grown the most?
  • What tools, toys, or positions did I use to push her edge? Which ones do I want to expand into next month?
  • Did I strike a balance between intensity and care, pushing her, but also protecting her?

🌿 Connection & Communication

  • How did I speak to her during and after anal play? Did my words create safety, command, or erotic tension?
  • What feedback did she give me (verbally, nonverbally, or later in downtime) that I can use as fuel for her next stage of growth?
  • What do I need to ask her directly about her experience that I haven’t yet?

🕊️ Devotional Closing

  • Write a closing Note of Ownership and intention of Leadership for next month.
  • Example starter: “Little rabbit, your body has given me new depths in leading. I claim your ass as mine, to train, to worship, and to command in the coming months.”

✨ Couples Ritual: At the end of the month, both partners complete their journal sets separately. Then, in downtime, together and exchange prompts, reading aloud or silently at Sir’s discretion. This not only honors her devotion but also reinforces his leadership, creating a cycle of reflection, communication, and erotic charge that carries into the new month.

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