Taste Death, Don’t Swallow | Mindf*ck & Fear
Fear is supposed to keep you alive. That is the official story. The unofficial story is that some of us go looking for it with…
Pardon as Power | Wiping the Slate Clean Ritual
A foundational relationship skill of the D/s-M Method Elevating Dynamics Through Intentional Release In every long-term power exchange, especially within marriage, residual weight accumulates. A…
Harvest Sex Positions | September Celebrations
Pirate’s Treasure & Lumberjack’s Standing Tree Let’s celebrate this month with a couple of great sex positions! International Talk Like a Pirate Day is celebrated…
Autumn Equinox Ritual | The Pirate King and the Mabon Queen Scene
The Autumn Equinox had arrived. Day and night stood equal for one brief, perfect moment before the dark began its slow claim. In the old…
The Scythe & The Sheaf | Lammas, First Harvest Sex Ritual
Lammas (also known as Lughnasadh) is the ancient Celtic festival of the first harvest, traditionally celebrated around August 1. It honors Lugh, the m…
Micro Rituals | Married Dominance and Submission
These rituals will satisfy the two MOST important needs that married couples require from one another.
~A wife’s craving or hunger for intimacy …
Impact Play: The Art of Sting, Thud, and Surrender | Beginners & Seasoned Secret Guide
Impact play refers to any BDSM activity involving the striking of the body for erotic, sensual, or psychological effect. It encompasses everything fr…
Patriotic Impact : Turning Red, White, & Blue | This Month’s Sexiest Secrets
Secret Fire Works for Couples MarriagesSexiestSecret.com Sirs and subMrs, get ready for the hottest, most liberating month yet in your D/s-M marriage! July is Patriotic…
Naked Power | Exposing Yourself
Using Nudity to Deepen Your D/s-M Dynamics, from First Blush Vulnerability to Seasoned Surrender (Plus + Hot Married Couples Summer Play Ideas) In D|s-M dynamics,…
Mirror Exercise | Facing Your Reflection
Mirror, Mirror on the Wall; Facing Your Reflection to Unlock Body Love, Confidence, and Raw D/s Pleasure Mirror, mirror on the wall…What do you see…...