Golden Shower | Urine Play
The infamous “golden shower”. Is it safe to participate in? What does it mean? The golden shower is known as urine play, water sports, or piss play. This was once only known in the world of kink in BDSM.
Urine play once taboo to vanilla lovers has now become a fun practice for modern couples. Come on go “MAIN “STREAM” !!! LOL! The original taboo of urine play was we had always urinated in private, even separate bathrooms, but now you’re doing it with your partner, on your partner, sexually. You don’t have to be diagnosed with urophilia or a urine fetish to enjoy this sexual practice. Urophilia is a paraphilia in which sexual arousal, urges and or fantasy is brought on with the thoughts of urinating or being urinated on.
When you are participating in golden showers, you are purposely urinating on your partner, or you’re asking your partner to purposely urinate on you. Just a reminder we are talking to loving partners, married or in a LTR but, do NOT give someone a golden shower without their consent first. Always, discuss boundaries regarding when, where, and how your urine play will work BEFORE trying a “Golden Shower”.
Golden showers can be a fun intimate play in the shower or a trust powerplay. A roleplay golden shower could be a dominant partner urinating on the submissive partner, markinging them as your partner. Some partners even mark one another.
Safety Tips
Your urine is not actually sterile because it still contains natural bacteria from your body. Generally speaking, the receiver will be safe if they have no cuts or abrassions, as urine doesn’t penetrate the skin. One great tip, keep your mouth shut! Ingesting urine can lead to other health problems like infections, dehydration, irritation of any wounds in the mouth or throat. There’s always some risk in every fluid sharing but knowing these factors can make this a safer practice. Know your partner’s health status and medical/mental conditions and disclosing yours is always essential to sharing anytype of SEXUAL play. Another tip, water is your friend as it dilutes smells. Drink lots of water!
Practice
Where do you do urine play? You can do urine play anywhere! Outdoors, in the pool. Keep in mind urine play doesn’t have to be whole body. Your partner could just pee on your foot or other parts of your body! Most couples enjoy it in either the bedroom or bathroom for quick clean up! In the bedroom, you can buy speciality water proof/absorbant sheets and floor coverings. The bathroom in my opinion is the place to receive or give a “golden shower”. The shower or tub are easiest to clean. Make your golden showers into a intimate couple’s ritual. Yes, being peed on can be very sensual! Add a kneeling pad (garden store) and body scrub turn it into a couples spa night! ENJOY!