Hair Play and Hair Bondage

How many times have you thought this would be so much hotter if he were pulling my hair? Does hair stroking or hair play lull you into submission? Have you explored the art of hair-pulling during sex? Are you interested in learning how to enhance your sex scenes and BDSM playtime using hair play or hair bondage?

It’s not like the primal play of Fred and Wilma, where the caveman grabs the cavewoman by the hair and pulls her into the cave to have sex. Well, unless this roleplay is what you are looking for. We must gain our partner’s consent and know their hair play preferences. You can do this as part of your limits list or review your planned scene in downtime discussions. I, for one, LOVE my hair played with in any way. Mr. Fox is aware. He tries to put it in scenes as much as he can.

Types of Hair Play

• Hair Stroking – Hair stroking can be accompanied by a scalp massage. Hair stroking by running your fingers through your partner’s hair is relaxing. Brushing your partner’s hair can be a connecting exercise. ( Also, having the brush out makes a great sensation or spanking tool.) Touching, stroking, or brushing the hair is a way to show warm affection and build intimate moments and feelings.
• Hair Grasping – You want to grab as much hair as possible when grasping hair. Try to grab the hair either at the neck or the nape or at the hair’s crown. During sex play, it’s very sexy to grasp your partner’s hair or have your partner grasp your hair, moving your head where they want it. Oral sex and doggy-style sex positions are great times to use hair play.

• Hair Bondage – Using hair as part of your sexual BDSM play. You can tie the hair with rope or hair hair bands. Try tying your partner to any sex furniture, toy, or tool you prefer. One of the favorites of power exchange couples is tying the hair to rope to an anal hook.

Using hair play in our sexual dynamics keeps things playful and sexy. The dominant partner can turn this into an art curated just for your most intimate play.

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