Weekly Guide | Daily Structure

🗓 D|s-M Days of the Week: A Sexy, Structured Life Together

A full week of erotic structure, kinky communication, and D|s-M devotion. Each day blends fun, education, and filthy delight to keep your dynamic thriving. Use these rituals as a couple to build deeper connection, hotter scenes, and lasting intimacy.

Every day includes:

• Themed titles
• Fun, educational, and dirty rituals
• DOM and sub responsibilities
• Journal prompts
• Erotic, spiritual, and kinky structure

🔧 How to Use This Guide:

• You don’t have to use every day each week. Choose the days that speak to your current dynamic, special holidays, and our monthly themes.
• Use the guide to reset rituals, explore new kinks, or create a weekly flow of structure, obedience, and release.
• Some weeks lean more into emotional connection, others physical. Let the rhythm of your D|s-M dynamics guide your selections.
• Print, journal, or post your days experiences. Share and discuss in your subMrs/husDOM Discord threads. Reinforce your intentions and share your experiences with others.
• Rotate themes based on life schedules, needs, or where you are in your erotic journey.
• These daily guides will also be posted in the Couples Holiday thread as part of your shared D|s-M ritual calendar. HusDOM and subMrs threads will sometimes include discussion about themes and topics and how they effect us as individuals.

Even participating in one day a week of intentional D|s-M deepens trust, eroticism, and devotion. Pick your pace. Own your rituals.

🤪 Manic Monday | Mindset & Maintenance

“Discipline is desire. It’s what makes it last.” – Mr. Fox
“My mind is wild, but my body knows who I belong to.” – L.K.

• Theme: Shake off the weekend chaos. Monday resets the dynamic through structure, ritual, and obedience.
• DOM Focus:
  • Reinforce protocols, assign a theme related weekly task
  • Maintenance spanking or a fun-ishment
  • Review obedience commands or sub journal
• sub Focus:
  • Journal about the weekend (obedience or disobedient feelings)
  • Serve in silence while preparing his space or items
  • Wear a collar, plug, or mark of ownership
• Ritual Idea: “Reset from the last Scene” -sub cleans/organize the toy box picks one toy and presents herself and the toy for inspection
• Mirror Practice: sub kneels before a mirror and recites S.O.A.P., then confess one way she surrenders, and one of her sub strengths
• Prompt: “What structure do I crave from my Dominant this week?” Take the prompt to next downtime.

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(๏ 人 ๏) Tits Tuesday | Training & Touch (Tits Up or Tits Out)

“It’s either ‘Tits Up’ for truth, or ‘Tits Out’ for pleasure.” – Mr. Fox

• Theme: Tuesday is about body-based accountability. Training, posture, correction, and if you’ve behaved, tits out for play.
• DOM Focus:
  • Assign posture tasks, behavior, and or corrections
  • Initiate inspection: Was this a Tits Up (mess) or Tits Out (pleasure) this past week?
• sub Focus:
  • Reflect on obedience: did I follow through? Where did I falter?
  • Present body for inspection, oral task, or denial training
• Tits Up: Missed tasks or behavior = downtime discussion + correction
• Tits Out: Obedience honored = play, praise, nipple clamps, worship
• Ritual: Inspection pose with breasts exposed or bound for reward/punishment
• Prompt: “Was this a Tits Up or Tits Out week, and what did I learn from it?” Take prompt to downtime.

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💦🐫 Wet Wednesday | Worship, Words & The Camel

“Somewhere between sacred and soaked, he speaks, and I drip.” – L.K.

• Theme: Midweek ache. A day for whispering, dripping, presenting, and obeying without loud words.
• DOM Focus:
  • Speak intentions or commands softly, practice whisper obedience
  • Assign oral service and journal reflection on it.
  • Inspect for wetness. Use clamps on labia, clit, or nipples to add more wetness
• sub Focus:
  • No panties. Present a visible camel toe and labia clamp to your Sir .
  • Serve silently. Worship with mouth, hands, or whole body
• Wet Hump Day Ritual:
  • sub edge herself, then wait for penetration or permission to finish
  • DOM assigns “Whisper Obedience”: follow whispered orders without speaking. (The Dominant gives instructions in a soft, whispered tone—close to the ear, against the skin, or even through a discreet text/voice note. The submissive must comply immediately, no questions, no repeating back, no loud response, just obedience in silence. The act of whispering adds an erotic layer of secrecy: like a command slipped into the ear in public, or an order given in bed that no one else should hear.
• Prompt: “How does my wetness reflect my obedience and desire?” Take Prompt to downtime.

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🥤😜 Thirsty Thursday | Thought, Theory & Oral Obedience

“I’m not just thirsty for D|s-M, I’m thirsty for Him.” – L.K.

• Theme: Learn it. Crave it. Suck it. Thursday blends education and eroticism.
• DOM Focus:
  • Introduce feeding her a drink of your choice, wink… wink………
  • Assign an oral quiz or an oral training task
  • Practice your kegals
• sub Focus:
  • Read up on oral skills, or do 20 minutes in the mood room
  • Present new knowledge, kneeling, orally
  • Stretch your muscles and practice kegals
• Thirst Rituals:
  • Practice Deep throat timing or gag protocol
  • “Thirst Trap”: present with mouth open, waiting for the order
• Prompt: “What do I thirst for most, knowledge, praise, or cock?” Take prompt to downtime.

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𝓯𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴𝔂 👅 Sexual Freak Friday | Fantasy, Foreplay & Filthy Fun

“On Fridays, I become the freak he whispered to me about on Monday.” – L.K.

• Theme: Time to let go. Friday unleashes the inner kinkster.
• DOM Focus:
  • Direct a fantasy, kink, or taboo role-play scene
  • Push sub’s limits safely and consensually
• sub Focus:
  • Present in costume, lingerie, or nude
  • Offer 3 freaky fantasies. Let DOM choose one to enact, modify, or tease with
• Ritual: Make and use a fantasy Jar, pick a dirty act or challenge to perform
• Tools: gags, plugs, harnesses, remote-control toys, dirty talk
• Prompt: “What’s one filthy craving I’ve been waiting for Him to command?” Take prompt to downtime.

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🎬 Make a Scene Saturday | Structure, Scenarios & Toy Planning

“My scene is my sanctuary. My body, the altar. His orders, the ritual.” – L.K.

• Theme: Build it. Review it. Obsess over it. Saturday is for intentional kink.
• DOM Focus:
  • Create a structured BDSM scene (physical or psychological)
  • Ask for fantasy ideas, toy wishlists, and limits check-ins
• sub Focus:
  • Write or draw a fantasy
  • Clean and prepare your body for tonight’s scene
  • Present a wishlist of toys, positions, or protocols
• Ritual:
  • Pre-scene prep the mind and body starting the beginning of the day. For mind prep, send texts or talk dirty all day before. For body prep, pre-pump or stretch vagina, masturbate, plug, and or stimulate nipples.
  • Scene Planning Debrief: What worked? What needs more?
• Prompt: “What scene do I crave most, and what surrender will it require?” Take prompt to downtime

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😈 Sinful Sunday | Surrender, Spirit & Confession

“Your surrender is my church. Your confession, my gospel.” – Mr. Fox

• Theme: Reflect. Forgive. Confess. Receive or release.
• DOM Focus:
  • Lead Sinful Confessional Ritual
  • Assign fun-ishment, praise, or penance
• sub Focus:
  • Kneel and offer erotic or emotional confessions
  • Ask for forgiveness or correction
• Sinful Confessional Ritual:
  • sub confesses kneeling, naked or bound
  • DOM chooses to punish or fun-ishment or purify ritual
  • End with collaring, wax seal, or aftercare touch
• Prompt: “What guilt, craving, or secret am I ready to surrender this week?” Take prompt to downtime

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Let the rhythm of your D|s-M week build from order to orgasm, posture to fun-ishment, worship to wetness.